Polite English: What NOT to say to people!

TL;DR

This lesson highlights offensive comments to avoid making towards women and men, including weight, pregnancy, appearance, flaws, and derogatory language.

Transcript

Hi. I need to talk to you guys about something. It's important, especially if you're going to talk to a lady. Sometimes people leave comments, sometimes people say things to people - they do not mean to be offensive, but it makes people sad and it makes people hate you. This lesson is called: "What Not to Say" or "What Not to Ask Ladies". And for a... Read More

Key Insights

• 🏋️‍♀️ Comments about weight, pregnancy, appearance, flaws, and derogatory language towards women and men should be avoided.
• 🔑 It is crucial to be mindful of the impact our words can have on others, even if unintentional.
• 🫡 Respect personal boundaries and do not make assumptions or judgments based on physical attributes.

Questions & Answers

Q: Why is it important to avoid commenting on someone's weight?

Making comments about someone's weight can be hurtful and contribute to body shaming. It's best to respect someone's privacy and not make assumptions or judgments about their body.

Q: How can I avoid offending someone about their appearance?

Instead of making unsolicited comments, focus on positive and affirming conversation topics. Compliment them on their achievements or ask about their hobbies and interests.

Q: Can I ask a close friend about their physical flaws or skin conditions?

It depends on the nature of your friendship and the comfort level between both parties. If your friend opens up about their struggles, you can offer support, but it's crucial to approach the topic sensitively and respectfully.

Q: Why shouldn't I use derogatory language towards women?

Using derogatory language towards women is disrespectful and perpetuates sexism and misogyny. It is important to treat all individuals with dignity and respect, regardless of their gender.

Summary & Key Takeaways

• It is important to avoid making comments about someone's weight, whether they have gained or lost weight, as it is a sensitive topic.

• Never ask a woman if she is pregnant, as this is personal information that is best shared by the individual.

• Be mindful of making comments about someone's appearance, including looks, age, or if they look tired or hungover.

• Avoid pointing out or asking about any physical flaws, such as someone's voice, face, or any visible skin conditions.