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• “The male belongs to Yang Yang’s peculiarity is that he is easily aroused. But also he easily retreats. The female belongs to Yin. Yin’s peculiarity is that she is slow to be aroused But also slow to be satiated.” (Taoist master Wu Hsien)
• And in the spirit of that timeless classic, She Comes First will condense a wealth of experience and expertise into a simple, essential rule book; it will elaborate on the principles and philosophy that underlie those rules and, in doing so, offer nothing less than the definitive guide to the grammar of oral sex.
• THE PREMISE of this book is simple: when it comes to pleasuring women and conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be every man’s native tongue.
• But once down there, what’s a man to do? The vast majority of women complain about guys who don’t like to do it, don’t know how to do it, or simply don’t do it nearly enough.
• Think clitorally, rather than vaginally; to focus on stimulation as opposed to penetration • Postpone gratification without sacrificing pleasure • Turn foreplay into coreplay • Skillfully navigate the process of female sexual response and appreciate the role of the clitoris as the powerhouse of pleasure • Develop a sense of awareness that will rend...