How to Get a Girl Interested in You Over Text

TL;DR

To get a girl interested over text, you need to maintain high perceived value and ensure the conversation is relevant to her interests. Focus on topics she cares about, gradually increasing her investment by discussing shared interests and experiences. This approach keeps her engaged and interested in continuing the conversation.

Transcript

what's up guys in this video i'm going to show how to get a girl to invest and get a conversation going even when she's not giving you much to work with so investment is actually more straightforward than a lot of people make it out to be it comes down primarily to two things value and relevance for example if a high value guy like leonardo dicapri... Read More

Key Insights

• ❓ Investment in a conversation depends on the value and relevance of the topics discussed.
• 👧 A person's perceived value can change based on their behavior and what the girl learns about them.
• 👧 Keeping the conversation relevant to the girl's interests increases investment.
• 💁 Building investment over text requires gathering information and gradually escalating the conversation.
• 😉 Frame battles may occur, but focusing on the shared goal of meeting up will lead to a win-win situation.
• 😷 Compliance is important in getting a girl's investment and can be achieved by asking her to text or comply with simple requests.

Questions & Answers

Q: How can I increase a girl's investment in a conversation?

You can increase a girl's investment by focusing on value and relevance. Be a high-value individual and discuss topics that are relevant to her interests and current situation.

Q: Can a person's perceived value change over time?

Yes, a person's perceived value can change based on their behavior and what the girl learns about them. It is easier for perceived value to decrease, but it can also increase if you show high-value traits or engage in interesting activities.

Q: What should I talk about to keep the conversation relevant to the girl?

Keep the conversation focused on her interests, current events, or topics that involve both of you. Ask her about her hobbies, opinions, or plans for the future. Show genuine interest in her and listen actively.

Q: How can I get a girl invested over text?

Start by gathering information about her and what she is passionate about. Use this information to initiate conversation and ask questions related to her interests. Gradually escalate the conversation by building rapport and finding common ground.

Key Insights:

• Investment in a conversation depends on the value and relevance of the topics discussed.
• A person's perceived value can change based on their behavior and what the girl learns about them.
• Keeping the conversation relevant to the girl's interests increases investment.
• Building investment over text requires gathering information and gradually escalating the conversation.
• Frame battles may occur, but focusing on the shared goal of meeting up will lead to a win-win situation.
• Compliance is important in getting a girl's investment and can be achieved by asking her to text or comply with simple requests.
• Each conversation may require a unique approach based on the girl's personality and preferences.

Summary & Key Takeaways

• Building investment with a girl comes down to two things: value and relevance. High-value individuals discussing relevant topics will receive more investment from the girl.

• To keep your perceived value high, focus on your behavior and what the girl learns about you. Your value can change over time.

• Keep the conversation relevant to her by talking about her interests, current events, or topics that involve both of you. This will increase her investment.