How To Make The Right Decision When Your Gut And Logic Don’t Agree

TL;DR

Sometimes, going with your gut and following your intuition is more important than relying solely on logic.

Transcript

Hey, it’s Marie Forleo and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be, say it with me, to create a business and life you love. And today is Q&A Tuesday. Today’s question comes from Harold and he writes: “Hey Marie, love what you do. Thanks for all the advice and clarity. I’m a highly intuitive person. I’m pondering a decision that on all sides point... Read More

Key Insights

• 🥺 Trusting your gut and following your intuition can often lead to positive outcomes, even when logic suggests otherwise.
• 💦 It is important to have a process in place to work through tough decisions when logic and intuition conflict.
• 😊 Writing down all the possibilities, pros and cons, worst-case scenarios, and considering the impact on others helps in making a clear and confident decision.
• 🤯 Overestimating worst-case scenarios in our minds can create unnecessary fear, but writing them down helps realize that most decisions can be changed or recovered from.
• 😤 Taking into consideration how a decision will impact others, such as team members, family, and friends, is vital in making an informed choice.
• 🛟 Important decisions have the potential to significantly impact one's life, so investing time and effort in the decision-making process is worthwhile.
• 🤪 Going with your gut requires more than just a snap decision; it involves a combination of intuition and thoughtfulness.

Questions & Answers

Q: Have you ever been torn between your sense of logic and intuition?

Yes, many people have experienced situations where logic suggests one thing, but their intuition points towards a different direction. It can be challenging to navigate such situations and find the right decision.

Q: Can you provide an example of a decision you made based on intuition against logic?

Marie shares her experience with self-publishing her book, which went against the advice of experts and logic. Despite the risks and stigma associated with self-publishing, she followed her intuition and it turned out to be one of the best decisions she ever made.

Q: What is the recommended process for making a tough decision?

The process involves writing down the desired outcome, listing all options, evaluating the pros and cons for each option, considering worst-case scenarios, and assessing how each option will impact others. This helps in gaining clarity and confidence in making the decision.

Q: Why is writing down the decision-making process important?

Writing down all the details and considerations allows for a clearer evaluation of the situation. It helps remove confusion and ensures that all factors are taken into account before making a decision.

Summary & Key Takeaways

• Harold asks if it's always best to go with what feels right when making decisions, even if logic suggests otherwise. Marie shares her personal experience of going against logic and following her intuition in self-publishing her book, which turned out to be a successful decision.

• Marie advises that when torn between logic and intuition, it is helpful to write down all the possibilities, pros and cons, worst case scenarios, and consider how each option will impact others. This process clarifies the situation and helps make a confident decision.