It just seemed easier to eschew the whole process and focus on other things in my life.

the insecurities and fears you have while dating (or not dating, as the case may be) don’t magically go away once you’re in a committed relationship.

The only way to get past your fear of vulnerability is to … be vulnerable.

it does mean taking the risk and sharing something more of yourself with someone you want to know better.  

Being in a relationship requires a certain amount of consideration for someone else and a willingness to communicate and over-communicate plans, thoughts, preferences, and the like.

Practice the habit of sacrifice by choosing the harder option when you’re with family and friends.

If you are happy and content with who you are, it will be easier to discern who you should marry, and will lead to a better marital relationship all around.

To grow in confidence and contentedness, spend time with people who build you up.

If you always feel inadequate and a little used when hanging out with your friends, seek out new people. Pray for the grace to meet them quickly.

Recognize any negative self-talk you engage in and stop it.