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More people should write « the jsomers.net blog

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Writing

Apr 6, 2024

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Ask for Advice, Not Permission

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Apr 5, 2024

8

The Unexpected Path to Success

fs.blog/brain-food/february-25-2024/

Mar 25, 2024

4

This Is How To Spend Your Money To Maximize Happiness - Barking Up The Wrong Tree

bakadesuyo.com/2024/01/maximize-happiness/?ref=refind

Mar 23, 2024

15

A Few Thoughts on Spending Money

collabfund.com/blog/a-few-thoughts-on-spending-money/?ref=refind

Mar 23, 2024

7

The secret habits of a top-performing BDR

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Sales

Mar 20, 2024

6

Do You Doubt Yourself? Good. | Your Next Breakthrough

markmanson.net/breakthrough/065-do-you-doubt-yourself?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email

Mar 20, 2024

2

The Friendless American Male — Tom Greene

tomgreene.com/blog/o5tb3yyr6q5icgo9ja99ryxf8fk8up

Mar 20, 2024

16

Report on the Censorship-Industrial Complex: The Top 50 Organizations to Know

www.racket.news/p/report-on-the-censorship-industrial-74b

Mar 19, 2024

1

Don’t Get Even, Get Justice

dailystoic.com/dont-get-even-get-justice/

Mar 17, 2024

1

Evaluating truthfulness of fake news through online searches increases chances of believing misinformation: Study

phys.org/news/2023-12-truthfulness-fake-news-online-chances.html

Mar 17, 2024

5

The science of motivation: how to get and stay motivated

nesslabs.com/science-of-motivation?ref=refind

Mar 16, 2024

12

Turning Pro: The Difference Between Amateurs and Professionals

fs.blog/amateurs-professionals/

Mar 16, 2024

19

500,000

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Mar 14, 2024

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Philosophy is like athletics – theory must be put into practice | Psyche Ideas

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Mar 12, 2024

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Friday Finds — Learning Science, Expert Generalists, Our Knowingness Problem

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Mar 12, 2024

1

You’ll Never Get Your Pound of Flesh

dailystoic.com/youll-never-get-your-pound-of-flesh/

Mar 8, 2024

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This High-Income Skill Made Me $1.1 Million Last Year

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Mar 7, 2024

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Rare Skills

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Mar 7, 2024

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Experts On Aging Reveal The 5 Major Habits That Will Improve Your Longevity

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Mar 3, 2024

5

Anger, sadness, boredom, anxiety – emotions that feel bad can be useful

theconversation.com/anger-sadness-boredom-anxiety-emotions-that-feel-bad-can-be-useful-217654?ref=refind

Mar 3, 2024

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Matt Yglesias and the secret of blogging

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Mar 3, 2024

2

Alcohol and drugs rewire your brain by changing how your genes work – research is investigating how to counteract addiction’s effects

theconversation.com/alcohol-and-drugs-rewire-your-brain-by-changing-how-your-genes-work-research-is-investigating-how-to-counteract-addictions-effects-220134?ref=refind

Mar 3, 2024

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How to turn "small talk" into Big Talk

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Mar 2, 2024

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Study finds link between marijuana use and cardiovascular disease

arstechnica.com/science/2024/02/marijuana-use-linked-to-increased-risk-of-heart-attack-stroke-study-finds/

Mar 1, 2024

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3 Obtainable Goals Every Content Creator Should Strive For

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Mar 1, 2024

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How To Deal With Anxiety

www.dailyyogi.co/p/how-to-deal-with-anxiety?utm_source=www.dailyyogi.co&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=how-to-deal-with-anxiety

Feb 27, 2024

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To make great changes in your life, follow the philosophy of kaizen

bigthink.com/smart-skills/kaizen/?ref=refind

Feb 27, 2024

1

Sunday Firesides: How Bad Do You Want It?

www.artofmanliness.com/character/advice/sunday-firesides-how-bad-do-you-want-it/?utm_referrer=onedailynugget.com&utm_source=onedailynugget.com&utm_medium=referral

Feb 27, 2024

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Psychologists recommend children be bored in the summer

qz.com/704723/to-be-more-self-reliant-children-need-boring-summers

Feb 22, 2024

3

You Need to Learn to Be Human - The Deep Sphere

thedeepsphere.com/you-need-to-learn-to-be-human/

Feb 22, 2024

3

The Curiosity Matrix: 9 Habits of Curious Minds

nesslabs.com/curiosity-matrix

Feb 22, 2024

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The Sunday Brew #65

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Feb 13, 2024

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Amor Fati: The Formula for Human Greatness

dailystoic.com/amor-fati-love-of-fate/

Feb 12, 2024

2

The Wise Learn from Both

www.dailyyogi.co/p/the-wise-learn-from-both-8542

Feb 12, 2024

2

Texas A&M Researcher Says Men Should Abstain From Drinking At Least Three Months Prior To Conceiving

today.tamu.edu/2023/12/13/drinking-prior-to-conceiving/

Feb 12, 2024

3

The psychology of negative thinking

nesslabs.com/negative-thinking?ref=refind

Feb 11, 2024

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"How to Guarantee a Life of Misery"

jamesclear.com/great-speeches/how-to-guarantee-a-life-of-misery-by-charlie-munger

Feb 9, 2024

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Order Your Instincts To Wait

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Feb 9, 2024

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Anger, sadness, boredom, anxiety – emotions that feel bad can be useful

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https://theconversation.com/anger-sadness-boredom-anxiety-emotions-that-feel-bad-can-be-useful-217654?ref=refind

Highlights & Notes

Our studies and many others have shown that emotions aren’t uniformly good or bad for people. Instead, different emotions can result in better outcomes in particular types of situations. Emotions seem to function like a Swiss army knife – different emotional tools are helpful in specific situations.

Sadness can help you recover from a failure
Sadness occurs when people perceive that they’ve lost a goal or a desired outcome, and there’s nothing they can do to improve the situation.

The benefit of the stopping and thinking that comes with sadness is that it helps people recover from failure.

Instead of just charging ahead in this type of scenario, sadness prompts people to step back and evaluate what is happening.

When people are sad, they process information in a deliberative, analytical way and want to avoid risk. This mode comes with more accurate memory, judgment that is less influenced by irrelevant assumptions or information, and better detection of other people lying. These cognitive changes can encourage people to understand past failures and possibly prevent future ones.

Expressing sadness, through tears or verbally, has the benefit of potentially recruiting other people to help you achieve your goals. This behavior appears to start in infants, with tears and cries signaling caregivers to help.

Anger prepares you to overcome an obstacle
Anger occurs when people perceive they’re losing a goal or desired outcome, but that they could improve the situation by removing something that’s in their way.

Anger results in better outcomes in situations that involve challenges to goals, including confrontational games, tricky puzzles, video games with obstacles, and responding quickly on tasks.

Expressing anger, facially or verbally, has the benefit of prompting other people to clear the way. People are more likely to concede in negotiations and give in on issues when their adversary looks or says they are angry.

Anxiety helps you prepare for danger
Anxiety occurs when people perceive a potential threat.

Being prepared for danger means that if trouble brews, you can respond quickly to prevent or avoid it.

Anxiety prepares the body for action, which improves performance on a number of tasks that involve motivation and attention.

Anxiety also prompts protective behavior, which can help prevent the potential threat from becoming a reality.

Psychology researchers think that the benefit of boredom in situations where people are not responding emotionally is that it prompts making a change. If nothing in your current situation is worth responding to, the aversive experience of boredom can motivate you to seek new situations or change the way you’re thinking. Boredom has been related to more risk seeking, a desire for novelty, and creative thinking. It seems to function like an emotional stick, nudging people out of their current situation to explore and create.