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How To Be Successful

blog.samaltman.com/how-to-be-successful

Sep 14, 2024

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Would you get Blood on your Hands to Save a Life?

outlookzen.com/2021/11/26/would-you-get-blood-on-your-hands-to-save-a-life/

Apr 11, 2024

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What's in your skill stack?

keepasking.substack.com/p/whats-in-your-skill-stack?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=689068&post_id=142687592&utm_campaign=email-post-title&isFreemail=true&r=1ntemk&triedRedirect=true&utm_medium=email

Apr 10, 2024

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1,000 True Fans

kk.org/thetechnium/1000-true-fans/

Apr 9, 2024

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More people should write « the jsomers.net blog

jsomers.net/blog/more-people-should-write

Writing

Apr 6, 2024

3

Ask for Advice, Not Permission

boz.com/articles/advice-not-permission

Apr 5, 2024

8

The Unexpected Path to Success

fs.blog/brain-food/february-25-2024/

Mar 25, 2024

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This Is How To Spend Your Money To Maximize Happiness - Barking Up The Wrong Tree

bakadesuyo.com/2024/01/maximize-happiness/?ref=refind

Mar 23, 2024

15

A Few Thoughts on Spending Money

collabfund.com/blog/a-few-thoughts-on-spending-money/?ref=refind

Mar 23, 2024

7

The secret habits of a top-performing BDR

www.thesalesjam.com/p/the-secret-habits-of-a-top-performing-bdr?utm_source=www.thesalesjam.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-secret-habits-of-a-top-performing-bdr

Sales

Mar 20, 2024

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Do You Doubt Yourself? Good. | Your Next Breakthrough

markmanson.net/breakthrough/065-do-you-doubt-yourself?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email

Mar 20, 2024

2

The Friendless American Male — Tom Greene

tomgreene.com/blog/o5tb3yyr6q5icgo9ja99ryxf8fk8up

Mar 20, 2024

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Report on the Censorship-Industrial Complex: The Top 50 Organizations to Know

www.racket.news/p/report-on-the-censorship-industrial-74b

Mar 19, 2024

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Don’t Get Even, Get Justice

dailystoic.com/dont-get-even-get-justice/

Mar 17, 2024

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Evaluating truthfulness of fake news through online searches increases chances of believing misinformation: Study

phys.org/news/2023-12-truthfulness-fake-news-online-chances.html

Mar 17, 2024

5

The science of motivation: how to get and stay motivated

nesslabs.com/science-of-motivation?ref=refind

Mar 16, 2024

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Turning Pro: The Difference Between Amateurs and Professionals

fs.blog/amateurs-professionals/

Mar 16, 2024

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500,000

www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/500000?utm_source=www.newsletteroperator.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=the-fastest-way-to-reach-10k-per-month-in-revenue

Mar 14, 2024

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Philosophy is like athletics – theory must be put into practice | Psyche Ideas

psyche.co/ideas/philosophy-is-like-athletics-theory-must-be-put-into-practice

Mar 12, 2024

2

Friday Finds — Learning Science, Expert Generalists, Our Knowingness Problem

miketaylor.beehiiv.com/p/friday-finds-learning-science-expert-generalists-knowingness-problem

Mar 12, 2024

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You’ll Never Get Your Pound of Flesh

dailystoic.com/youll-never-get-your-pound-of-flesh/

Mar 8, 2024

2

This High-Income Skill Made Me $1.1 Million Last Year

substack.com/home/post/p-142377541?source=queue

Mar 7, 2024

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Rare Skills

collabfund.com/blog/rare-skills/

Mar 7, 2024

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Experts On Aging Reveal The 5 Major Habits That Will Improve Your Longevity

www.huffpost.com/entry/superager-aging-well-tips_l_65970de1e4b0f27b6e36c967?ref=refind

Mar 3, 2024

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Anger, sadness, boredom, anxiety – emotions that feel bad can be useful

theconversation.com/anger-sadness-boredom-anxiety-emotions-that-feel-bad-can-be-useful-217654?ref=refind

Mar 3, 2024

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Matt Yglesias and the secret of blogging

maxread.substack.com/p/matt-yglesias-and-the-secret-of-blogging?ref=refind

Mar 3, 2024

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Alcohol and drugs rewire your brain by changing how your genes work – research is investigating how to counteract addiction’s effects

theconversation.com/alcohol-and-drugs-rewire-your-brain-by-changing-how-your-genes-work-research-is-investigating-how-to-counteract-addictions-effects-220134?ref=refind

Mar 3, 2024

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How to turn "small talk" into Big Talk

thequietlife.net/p/how-to-turn-small-talk-into-big-talk?pos=5&utm_source=%2Fbrowse%2Frecommendations&utm_medium=reader2

Mar 2, 2024

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Study finds link between marijuana use and cardiovascular disease

arstechnica.com/science/2024/02/marijuana-use-linked-to-increased-risk-of-heart-attack-stroke-study-finds/

Mar 1, 2024

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3 Obtainable Goals Every Content Creator Should Strive For

theformula.substack.com/p/3-obtainable-goals-every-content

Mar 1, 2024

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How To Deal With Anxiety

www.dailyyogi.co/p/how-to-deal-with-anxiety?utm_source=www.dailyyogi.co&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=how-to-deal-with-anxiety

Feb 27, 2024

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To make great changes in your life, follow the philosophy of kaizen

bigthink.com/smart-skills/kaizen/?ref=refind

Feb 27, 2024

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Sunday Firesides: How Bad Do You Want It?

www.artofmanliness.com/character/advice/sunday-firesides-how-bad-do-you-want-it/?utm_referrer=onedailynugget.com&utm_source=onedailynugget.com&utm_medium=referral

Feb 27, 2024

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Psychologists recommend children be bored in the summer

qz.com/704723/to-be-more-self-reliant-children-need-boring-summers

Feb 22, 2024

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You Need to Learn to Be Human - The Deep Sphere

thedeepsphere.com/you-need-to-learn-to-be-human/

Feb 22, 2024

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The Curiosity Matrix: 9 Habits of Curious Minds

nesslabs.com/curiosity-matrix

Feb 22, 2024

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The Sunday Brew #65

percolator.substack.com/p/the-sunday-brew-65?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=298077&post_id=141565232&utm_campaign=email-post-title&isFreemail=true&r=1ntemk&utm_medium=email

Feb 13, 2024

2

Amor Fati: The Formula for Human Greatness

dailystoic.com/amor-fati-love-of-fate/

Feb 12, 2024

2

The Wise Learn from Both

www.dailyyogi.co/p/the-wise-learn-from-both-8542

Feb 12, 2024

2

Texas A&M Researcher Says Men Should Abstain From Drinking At Least Three Months Prior To Conceiving

today.tamu.edu/2023/12/13/drinking-prior-to-conceiving/

Feb 12, 2024

3

The psychology of negative thinking

nesslabs.com/negative-thinking?ref=refind

Feb 11, 2024

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"How to Guarantee a Life of Misery"

jamesclear.com/great-speeches/how-to-guarantee-a-life-of-misery-by-charlie-munger

Feb 9, 2024

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Order Your Instincts To Wait

www.dailyyogi.co/p/order-your-instincts-to-wait?utm_source=www.dailyyogi.co&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=order-your-instincts-to-wait

Feb 9, 2024

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A grandfather's advice to young people: 3 ways to become more likable, memorable and build lasting relationships

www.cnbc.com/2021/01/28/how-to-be-more-likable-memorable-and-build-lasting-relationships-advice-for-young-people.html?utm_referrer=onedailynugget.com&utm_source=onedailynugget.com&utm_medium=referral

Feb 8, 2024

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Why Do I Get Anxious for No Reason? – The Friendly Mind

www.thefriendlymind.com/why-do-i-get-anxious-for-no-reason/

Feb 7, 2024

2

Quit: A Framework for Giving Up

www.readaccelerated.com/p/quit-a-framework-for-giving-up?ref=refind

Feb 7, 2024

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The purpose of life is to participate in evolution through action

engineeringideas.substack.com/p/the-purpose-of-life-is-to-participate

Feb 6, 2024

6

How to Argue with Your Partner in a Healthy Way

greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_argue_with_your_partner_in_a_healthy_way

Relationships

Feb 5, 2024

2

Was Randy Cassingham the first member of the Creator Economy?

simonowens.substack.com/p/was-randy-cassingham-the-first-member

Feb 4, 2024

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How To Be Successful

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Highlights & Notes

Compounding is magic. Look for it everywhere. Exponential curves are the key to wealth generation.

You also want to be an exponential curve yourself—you should aim for your life to follow an ever-increasing up-and-to-the-right trajectory. It’s important to move towards a career that has a compounding effect—most careers progress fairly linearly.

You don't want to be in a career where people who have been doing it for two years can be as effective as people who have been doing it for twenty—your rate of learning should always be high. As your career progresses, each unit of work you do should generate more and more results. There are many ways to get this leverage, such as capital, technology, brand, network effects, and managing people.

It’s useful to focus on adding another zero to whatever you define as your success metric—money, status, impact on the world, or whatever. I am willing to take as much time as needed between projects to find my next thing. But I always want it to be a project that, if successful, will make the rest of my career look like a footnote.

Trust the exponential, be patient, and be pleasantly surprised.

Self-belief is immensely powerful. The most successful people I know believe in themselves almost to the point of delusion.

Cultivate this early. As you get more data points that your judgment is good and you can consistently deliver results, trust yourself more.

Self-belief must be balanced with self-awareness. I used to hate criticism of any sort and actively avoided it. Now I try to always listen to it with the assumption that it’s true, and then decide if I want to act on it or not. Truth-seeking is hard and often painful, but it is what separates self-belief from self-delusion.

This balance also helps you avoid coming across as entitled and out of touch.

Thinking from first principles and trying to generate new ideas is fun, and finding people to exchange them with is a great way to get better at this. The next step is to find easy, fast ways to test these ideas in the real world.

One of the most powerful lessons to learn is that you can figure out what to do in situations that seem to have no solution. The more times you do this, the more you will believe it. Grit comes from learning you can get back up after you get knocked down.

All great careers, to some degree, become sales jobs. You have to evangelize your plans to customers, prospective employees, the press, investors, etc. This requires an inspiring vision, strong communication skills, some degree of charisma, and evidence of execution ability.

Getting good at communication—particularly written communication—is an investment worth making. My best advice for communicating clearly is to first make sure your thinking is clear and then use plain, concise language.

The best way to be good at sales is to genuinely believe in what you’re selling. Selling what you truly believe in feels great, and trying to sell snake oil feels awful.

Getting good at sales is like improving at any other skill—anyone can get better at it with deliberate practice. But for some reason, perhaps because it feels distasteful, many people treat it as something unlearnable.

  1. Make it easy to take risks

Most people overestimate risk and underestimate reward. Taking risks is important because it’s impossible to be right all the time—you have to try many things and adapt quickly as you learn more.

It’s often easier to take risks early in your career; you don’t have much to lose, and you potentially have a lot to gain. Once you’ve gotten yourself to a point where you have your basic obligations covered you should try to make it easy to take risks. Look for small bets you can make where you lose 1x if you’re wrong but make 100x if it works. Then make a bigger bet in that direction.

Don’t save up for too long, though. At YC, we’ve often noticed a problem with founders that have spent a lot of time working at Google or Facebook. When people get used to a comfortable life, a predictable job, and a reputation of succeeding at whatever they do, it gets very hard to leave that behind (and people have an incredible ability to always match their lifestyle to next year’s salary). Even if they do leave, the temptation to return is great. It’s easy—and human nature—to prioritize short-term gain and convenience over long-term fulfillment.  

But when you aren’t on

  1. Focus

Focus is a force multiplier on work.

Almost everyone I’ve ever met would be well-served by spending more time thinking about what to focus on. It is much more important to work on the right thing than it is to work many hours. Most people waste most of their time on stuff that doesn’t matter.

Once you have figured out what to do, be unstoppable about getting your small handful of priorities accomplished quickly. I have yet to meet a slow-moving person who is very successful.

Extreme people get extreme results. Working a lot comes with huge life trade-offs, and it’s perfectly rational to decide not to do it. But it has a lot of advantages. As in most cases, momentum compounds, and success begets success.

One more thought about working hard: do it at the beginning of your career. Hard work compounds like interest, and the earlier you do it, the more time you have for the benefits to pay off. It’s also easier to work hard when you have fewer other responsibilities, which is frequently but not always the case when you’re young.

Follow your curiosity. Things that seem exciting to you will often seem exciting to other people too.

A big secret is that you can bend the world to your will a surprising percentage of the time—most people don’t even try, and just accept that things are the way that they are.

People have an enormous capacity to make things happen. A combination of self-doubt, giving up too early, and not pushing hard enough prevents most people from ever reaching anywhere near their potential.

Ask for what you want. You usually won’t get it, and often the rejection will be painful. But when this works, it works surprisingly well.

To be willful, you have to be optimistic—hopefully this is a personality trait that can be improved with practice. I have never met a very successful pessimistic person.

The best way to become difficult to compete with is to build up leverage. For example, you can do it with personal relationships, by building a strong personal brand, or by getting good at the intersection of multiple different fields. There are many other strategies, but you have to figure out some way to do it.