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How To Be Successful

blog.samaltman.com/how-to-be-successful

Sep 14, 2024

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Would you get Blood on your Hands to Save a Life?

outlookzen.com/2021/11/26/would-you-get-blood-on-your-hands-to-save-a-life/

Apr 11, 2024

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What's in your skill stack?

keepasking.substack.com/p/whats-in-your-skill-stack?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=689068&post_id=142687592&utm_campaign=email-post-title&isFreemail=true&r=1ntemk&triedRedirect=true&utm_medium=email

Apr 10, 2024

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1,000 True Fans

kk.org/thetechnium/1000-true-fans/

Apr 9, 2024

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More people should write « the jsomers.net blog

jsomers.net/blog/more-people-should-write

Writing

Apr 6, 2024

3

Ask for Advice, Not Permission

boz.com/articles/advice-not-permission

Apr 5, 2024

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The Unexpected Path to Success

fs.blog/brain-food/february-25-2024/

Mar 25, 2024

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This Is How To Spend Your Money To Maximize Happiness - Barking Up The Wrong Tree

bakadesuyo.com/2024/01/maximize-happiness/?ref=refind

Mar 23, 2024

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A Few Thoughts on Spending Money

collabfund.com/blog/a-few-thoughts-on-spending-money/?ref=refind

Mar 23, 2024

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The secret habits of a top-performing BDR

www.thesalesjam.com/p/the-secret-habits-of-a-top-performing-bdr?utm_source=www.thesalesjam.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=the-secret-habits-of-a-top-performing-bdr

Sales

Mar 20, 2024

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Do You Doubt Yourself? Good. | Your Next Breakthrough

markmanson.net/breakthrough/065-do-you-doubt-yourself?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email

Mar 20, 2024

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The Friendless American Male — Tom Greene

tomgreene.com/blog/o5tb3yyr6q5icgo9ja99ryxf8fk8up

Mar 20, 2024

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Report on the Censorship-Industrial Complex: The Top 50 Organizations to Know

www.racket.news/p/report-on-the-censorship-industrial-74b

Mar 19, 2024

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Don’t Get Even, Get Justice

dailystoic.com/dont-get-even-get-justice/

Mar 17, 2024

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Evaluating truthfulness of fake news through online searches increases chances of believing misinformation: Study

phys.org/news/2023-12-truthfulness-fake-news-online-chances.html

Mar 17, 2024

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The science of motivation: how to get and stay motivated

nesslabs.com/science-of-motivation?ref=refind

Mar 16, 2024

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Turning Pro: The Difference Between Amateurs and Professionals

fs.blog/amateurs-professionals/

Mar 16, 2024

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500,000

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Mar 14, 2024

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Philosophy is like athletics – theory must be put into practice | Psyche Ideas

psyche.co/ideas/philosophy-is-like-athletics-theory-must-be-put-into-practice

Mar 12, 2024

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Friday Finds — Learning Science, Expert Generalists, Our Knowingness Problem

miketaylor.beehiiv.com/p/friday-finds-learning-science-expert-generalists-knowingness-problem

Mar 12, 2024

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You’ll Never Get Your Pound of Flesh

dailystoic.com/youll-never-get-your-pound-of-flesh/

Mar 8, 2024

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This High-Income Skill Made Me $1.1 Million Last Year

substack.com/home/post/p-142377541?source=queue

Mar 7, 2024

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Rare Skills

collabfund.com/blog/rare-skills/

Mar 7, 2024

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Experts On Aging Reveal The 5 Major Habits That Will Improve Your Longevity

www.huffpost.com/entry/superager-aging-well-tips_l_65970de1e4b0f27b6e36c967?ref=refind

Mar 3, 2024

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Anger, sadness, boredom, anxiety – emotions that feel bad can be useful

theconversation.com/anger-sadness-boredom-anxiety-emotions-that-feel-bad-can-be-useful-217654?ref=refind

Mar 3, 2024

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Matt Yglesias and the secret of blogging

maxread.substack.com/p/matt-yglesias-and-the-secret-of-blogging?ref=refind

Mar 3, 2024

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Alcohol and drugs rewire your brain by changing how your genes work – research is investigating how to counteract addiction’s effects

theconversation.com/alcohol-and-drugs-rewire-your-brain-by-changing-how-your-genes-work-research-is-investigating-how-to-counteract-addictions-effects-220134?ref=refind

Mar 3, 2024

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How to turn "small talk" into Big Talk

thequietlife.net/p/how-to-turn-small-talk-into-big-talk?pos=5&utm_source=%2Fbrowse%2Frecommendations&utm_medium=reader2

Mar 2, 2024

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Study finds link between marijuana use and cardiovascular disease

arstechnica.com/science/2024/02/marijuana-use-linked-to-increased-risk-of-heart-attack-stroke-study-finds/

Mar 1, 2024

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3 Obtainable Goals Every Content Creator Should Strive For

theformula.substack.com/p/3-obtainable-goals-every-content

Mar 1, 2024

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How To Deal With Anxiety

www.dailyyogi.co/p/how-to-deal-with-anxiety?utm_source=www.dailyyogi.co&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=how-to-deal-with-anxiety

Feb 27, 2024

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To make great changes in your life, follow the philosophy of kaizen

bigthink.com/smart-skills/kaizen/?ref=refind

Feb 27, 2024

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Sunday Firesides: How Bad Do You Want It?

www.artofmanliness.com/character/advice/sunday-firesides-how-bad-do-you-want-it/?utm_referrer=onedailynugget.com&utm_source=onedailynugget.com&utm_medium=referral

Feb 27, 2024

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Psychologists recommend children be bored in the summer

qz.com/704723/to-be-more-self-reliant-children-need-boring-summers

Feb 22, 2024

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The science of motivation: how to get and stay motivated

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Motivation is all about getting started and consistently taking action, making sure we get back on track when we fall off the bandwagon.

Researchers in organisational psychology note that “intrinsic motivation is key for persistence at work”. If you enjoy what you do, the activity and the goal will collide so that both your interest and experience of work are enhanced.

Writing in the American Psychologist journal, Richard Ryan and Edward Deci highlighted the three innate psychological needs which must be satisfied to enhance self-motivation and mental health: competence, autonomy and relatedness.

If we feel competent in a behaviour, either as a result of feedback, communication or rewards, our intrinsic motivation will be greater. However, this is only the case if we have a sense of autonomy over the action. 

Relatedness is often more relevant to extrinsic motivation. If a behaviour is valued by a manager, client, or friend, we will feel a sense of connectedness with them, which will lead to internalisation of an extrinsic motivation.

Self-Determination Theory therefore demonstrates that our psychological needs must be met for self-regulation to occur, so that both intrinsic and extrinsic motivation can be maintained.

Similarly, if you set goals that do not suit you, you may be unable to self-regulate and see how they relate to you. Without self-regulation, neither intrinsic nor extrinsic motivation will be present, and you won’t manage to stay motivated.

In some cases, the absence of clarity in your aspirations may deter you from pursuing them. You might know that you’re unhappy in your current role, but feel unsure about where to begin with instigating a career change.

Whether your motivation for change is internally or externally motivated, you cannot sustain motivation without having an aim clearly in focus.

What matters is that when you recognise a lull in momentum, you get back on track as quickly as possible. Try to “never miss twice in a row” by acting on any demotivation and not allowing it to persist. 

Motivation will only come once we have started a task or behaviour, not before we get going. Rather than letting tasks accumulate until they feel insurmountable, the best strategy is to generate the momentum required to conquer a long-term goal by consistently showing up every day.

Focus on the right goals. Intrinsic motivation will occur naturally if you choose a goal you care about. If you don’t feel committed or connected to the goal, you’ll need to rely mostly on willpower, which isn’t sustainable in the long-term.

Create a motivation routine. Block out time first thing each morning to focus on the goal that matters to you. Prioritising this time reaffirms your commitment to the task.

Plan to bounce back. We will all slip up, but having a safety net in place will help to prevent demotivation setting in. Finding an accountability buddy can help keep you focused and celebrate your successes.

Most importantly, remind yourself that you will never regret persevering with hard, but valuable, work once it is done. Self-regulation is an important part of motivation, and it will only occur if you feel competent, autonomous and understand how your goal relates to you.