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• So, every wedding vow should also really end with, “I promise to show up and put the work into our relationship for the rest of my life even when I really, really don’t feel like it.”
• 1. We base our choices on “peak” moments instead of “mundane” ones
• 2. We’re often very wrong about what will make us happy in the future
• What you can do: Do a pre-mortem with your partner if you decide to get married. Imagine that it is 7 years down the line and your relationship has failed, what would have most likely caused it? Work on the issues you identified for both you and your partner now and don’t get married if you can’t resolve it.
• 3. We’re playing by the wrong rules of success

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