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• In the second half of life it is not so much what you do that matters; it is the
• For everything you choose (or that has been chosen for you), something else is “unchosen.”
• What is unlived yet still has some urgency in you? How is it expressed? As discontent, or anger, or persistant sadness and lack of energy? Are you frequently agitated or disappointed by what life brings you? Do you feel cheated by the circumstances you find yourself in?
• The unchosen thing is what causes the trouble. If you don’t do something with the unchosen, it will set up a minor infection somewhere in the unconscious and later take its revenge on you. Unlived life does not just “go away” through underuse or by tossing it off and thinking that what we have abandoned is no longer useful or relevant. Instead, unl...
• Only awareness of your shadow qualities can help you to find an appropriate place for your unredeemed darkness and thereby create a more satisfying experience.