Top Highlights

• that it's called a breakup because it's broken. Even if you can't see it right now, if you've broken up, at least one person in your relationship knows it deep down. And if he ended it, that means he doesn't want to try to fix it either.
• The hard truth is that breakups are sink-or-swim. Some people spend their whole life in an emotional downward spiral because they can't get over lost love.
• This can be a breakup or a breakover. It's up to you.
• We just think it's significant that our worst experiences led to what we ultimately think of as our best.
• When you and your ex got into this relationship, you were two brand-new sports cars driving side by side. You were sleek, desirable, sexy, and confident, and the ride was exhilarating. After a while you zigged when he zagged, you weren't driving the same speed anymore, one of you was always trying to catch up, and eventually you crashed and totaled...