Tara H
@THLiterary
Interested in learning, self-care and productivity they/them
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Simply taking a moment before you react preserves your agency and allows you to choose your words and actions thoughtfully and intentionally.
Try to imagine—and then channel—how you would respond right now if you were living your best life (i.e., well-rested, well-fed, and freshly showered). I’m not suggesting that you try to remain supernaturally calm, but even just an awareness of your own emotional state can help you stay grounded.
focus on your feet. Feel your soles pressing into the ground. Notice how the earth is holding you up. Wiggle your toes inside your shoes. Notice any sensations in the muscles and tendons. Then, refocus your attention
Our instinct is to rush in and distract, or to fix things and make everything okay. But sometimes what will actually make you both feel better is simply to be present—to sit and be with all of the distress without trying to cut it short.